The Parent and The Child

There are so many things happening in a family especially in the relationship of the parent and the child.As a parent who completes the role as aguide for their child or as a child who is still making his/her dreams comr true,there are still challenges to face and to survive.There are things which are hard to organize between the parent-child relationship There are things which are not yet clear and things that are need to be learned in such a way the relationshipwill stay strong.

Often many discussions and misunderstandings happen.This is because of the opposite likes,too much love,strict parents or the parent is not yet ready to consider some things.As a child,I have experienced them all.I can feel the feeling of a child when they find their difficulties explaining of what he/she has done.I can also feel a heavy heart whenever the things I want to say are kept and I want to burst!Why can't I say it?!It's because I don't want to add up to the confrontations if ever I open up my feelings.Sometimes,our parents are having a hard time dealing with us as we are with them.There are many of us who does not understand,who gets angry because of the discipline made by our parents and also for the rules in the household which sometimes make us sick!There are parents who forbids so many things which gives the child an impression of controlling him/her.They are the ones who decide what their child must do.The children are the ones pressured in the situation.There are children who tries to understand but there are ones who disobey what their parents want."Why don't they understand thet I'm old enough to know which is wrong or right?!".This is always the question on the child's mind in such situations.Because there are parents who forbid and do not explain why they do so,the child thinks of reasons which are often wrong and mislead the child.Parents must give their child much informations so their child can understand and obey them wholeheartedly.Parents must also give support because no one else knows what their dreams are but the children themselves.

Another situation which makes things difficult for a child are the BIG expectations from the people around them,especially,of course,their parents.Parents always hope that the child is a replica of them,follows their footsteps and as 'perfect' as the elders in the family.These expectations create pressure and persuades the child to reach it.But then,it will create more difficulty.For example:the child had given the best but sill he/she has not met the expectations.The parents must know the abilities and capabilities of their child so they can estimate as to where their child can reach and lessen difficulties.Children are humane not robots who parents can dictate forever.For instance,children are not 'perfect' and make mistakes.

Communication gap.Another problem in the said relationship.Parents are usually not at home,working and not realizing that their child needs more than the money they can give.the child needs their presence,love and care.But it is also wrong to rebel against your parents.Rebellion is not the answer.Let us understand that they are doing this for our sake.Things must be balanced."Give and Take" as they always say.Let us open our minds and hearts to accept mistakes and search for forgiveness.Be patient and loving.Support and happiness gives much help in the family.The memebers of the family must also respect each other.Let us do this to have a peaceful and happy family.

Just LOve...

Finding true love is the greatest adventure of life.

Love is the tenderest and most powerful emotion of all.I know all of us have experienced loving and be loved by someone.Sometimes we love the wrong person and repeat it over and over again until we finally find the right love we deserve.

It hurts when the only person you want to hold on to forever is going out with someone else and all you can do is continue loving him/her .When your feelings get too strong for someone,it's always wise to stop for a while and give your heart a time to breathe,a time to use your mind and weigh the situation based on reason not on emotion.

We don't choose the person we fall for or get attracted with.It just hits us like a speeding bullet and we cannot feel it at first unless we see ourselves bleeding.Yes,it is always like that.We can never teach our hearts what to do or who tolove.Eventhough for the whole world it's wrong..that it's a mistake,we still continue to love because we can't stop it.It feels so right!Love has no reasons at all.Love has no restrictions.Being inlove is a lot like being sick but the irony is when you get sick,you need medicine to cure it but when you fall inlove the thing that can cure you is the same thing that caused it.It's really a painful thing to love a person who cannot love you back.You are the only one loving.It hurts to see him with someone else.It's liked you are stabbed in the heart with millions of knives.

Sometimes it's easy to fall inlove with someone.It's easy to to loose your self to someone you hardly know.But why isn't it easy to forget someone who found it easy to let you go?It's always hard to let go of someone who became a part of your life.,who gave you the reason tom smile,the reason to live and who taught you how to love but then he will also be the one who gives you a reason to cry in the end.Loving someone is like holding a broken piece of glass not wanting to give up but your hands feel the pain and when you finally let go your free from pain but your hands are empty and bleeding.When our love fails,we have to move on and realize that it is not the end of the world.We should continue to live and try to forget because it is not easy.Yes,when we think of the memories we shared with that someone we can still feel pain.Don't think of your past love as a failure.Instead,let it teach you.Let it be the one to guide you in your next
love.Mistakes always teach us.

All of this I have experienced in the game of love.I maybe young and you may think it's puppy love,but it's still love isn't it?

I feel so empty these past few days.I feel so dumb and hurt but always cover it with a smile,a laugh pretending there is nothing causing pain in my heart.I've been through with it..with love,with all the hurt and pain yet someone comes along again in an ordinary day.A smile,a hug,a call.Am I climbing again just to fall?I'm not really afraid to love again but afraid to get hurt.Though I am hurt right now.My present love is so complicated.I'm still confused with somethings.But in love there is always pain..I know I'm still young to experience this.But who cares?!Everyone can love.Even you.Love is indeed a great word to tell that it takes a great time to figure out if it's really love.